So I got a message from someone, who just wrote "cute." I checked out his profile, to find that while he's got a decent grasp of grammar, he's got some things going on that make me uncomfortable. Like his "old-fashioned, Midwestern values" which means he kind of smothers women at best or shows signs of being an abuser at worst. He doesn't describe what he wants in a partner as an individual, just as "women" and he likes to send them many texts during the day to make them smile, little notes for them to find--behavior that I would find overbearing and crazy-making anyway. I got a strong feeling this is not a guy who thinks of women as individuals with preferences.
Later on he messages me and takes me to task for apparently not liking him.
I reply that I don't respond to messages with no content (general policy) and that I didn't like how he views women and the way he treats them.
He wrote back:
"Honestly, you should responds back to anyone who writes you because your fat."
I love it when I am proved correct.